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Beyond Ex-Gay describes itself as “an online community for those who have survived ex gay experiences” like ex-gay therapy or “sexual orientation change efforts.” They recently conducted a survey of 400 survivors of ex-gay therapy, who no longer participate in any conversion efforts.

Perhaps the saddest part of the survey were the responses to the question “[w]hat were the reasons (the motivations) you tried to follow an ex-gay path?” As you’ll see, the primary reasons for doing so were religious. The other reasons relate to societal pressures to fit in. All of this goes to show that a LGBT identity in itself doesn’t cause unhappiness. Homophobia does.

 1. To Be a Better Christian

One participant was “was forced by my parents, counselor and church members to participate in ex-gay activities.” Another participant seemed to still believe that homosexuality is wrong and incompatible with Christianity: “Scripture is CLEAR that homosexuals and other kinds of unrighteous people will not inherit the kingdom of God.” Another said, “My pastor at the time implored me to deal with this. I had no desire to change my sexual orientation. This was upon his insistence.”

2. I Believed It Was What God Wanted Me to Do

One participant described a “fear of ruining God’s plan for my life.” Another participant wrote, “Mostly it was because I wanted to please God and I didn’t think being gay was an option.”

3. I Feared I Would Be Condemned By God

One participant wrote, “I was told to be gay was sinful.” Another was told they had “demons.”

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What are people doing in New York this summer?  Well, we know what a whole slew of them are doing on the evening of June 28th.  Literally selling like ‘hot cakes,’ as the old saying states, tickets to Program 06 of this year’s VF13 line-up are SOLD OUT.

One of two “Centerpiece” blocks of this edition of VF, Program 06 boasts the World Premiere of Katie Halper’s COMMIE CAMP, a documentary film about Camp Kinderland, a summer camp which, since 1923, has been preaching the gospel of peace and social justice for all, just as Rush Limbaugh and Glenn Beck rage against the supposed indoctrination of today’s children by ‘extremist’ liberal institutions.  This film shows what really goes on at one of these ‘training’ camps.  Preceding the feature presentation will be the animated short, THE COLLECTOR’S GIFT, by Ryan Kravetz; the coming of age short, I FEEL STUPID, by Milena Pastreich; and the fun on wheels short doc, THE GASKETTES, by Jason House.

Excerpted from Domanivisionfilm

That’s right, ladies and gentlemen! The state that brought you the chain-gang enforcing Sheriff Joseph Arpaio, the “show me your papers” immigration law, and racial profiling is proud to present its latest hit: a law prohibiting sex and raced-based abortion, based on lies and stereotypes about black and Asian women. Well, Arizona signed the law back in 2011, but it’s in the news again because the American Civil Liberties Union and the ACLU of Arizona filed a lawsuit Wednesday on behalf of the NAACP of Maricopa County and the National Asian Pacific American Women’s Forum (NAPAWF) challenging the law.

The law prohibits abortions based on the sex or race of the fetus or embryo, and makes it a felony to knowingly perform or provide financing for an abortion sought because of the race or sex of the fetus or a parent’s race. The maximum punishment if convicted is 3.5 years in prison. The woman and doctor must also sign an affidavit stating the reason the woman wants an abortion has nothing to do with the race or sex of the embryo or fetus.

The Republicans (no surprise there) who introduced the bill claim they were motivated by the epidemic of gender and race-based abortion occurring in Arizona. The worst thing about this epidemic is that, well, it doesn’t exist.

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Sunday, Angelina Jolie’s aunt, Debbie Martin,  died of breast cancer at the age of 61. Martin was the younger sister of Jolie’s mother, Marcheline Bertrand, who died of ovarian cancer in 2007 at 56. Jolie’s genetic disposition towards breast cancer and ovarian cancer, due to the presence of the defective BRCA1 gene, motivated the actress to have a preventative double mastectomy. She also plans to have both of her ovaries removed.

Jolie is not the only celebrity who has gone through a double mastectomy. Here are five others.

Christina Applegate

In 2008, when she was 36, Christina Applegate was diagnosed with breast cancer. The daughter of a breast cancer survivor, Applegate planned to treat the cancer, which had not spread beyond her left breast, with radiation. But after a test revealed that she had the BRCA1 gene, she decided to have a double mastectomy. Applegate explained, “It just seemed like, ‘I don’t want to have to deal with this again. I don’t want to keep putting that stuff in my body. I just want to be done with this.’ And I was just going to let them go.”

Sharon Osbourne

Sharon Osbourne was diagnosed with colon cancer in 2002 when she was 49. She underwent chemotherapy and had a foot of her colon removed. She then founded the Sharon Osbourne Colon Cancer Program at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center. In 2012, Osbourne learned she had the BRCA1 gene and opted for a double mastectomy, though she didn’t have breast cancer. “As soon as I found out I had the breast cancer gene, I thought, ‘The odds are not in my favor’,” Osbcourne reflected. “I’ve had cancer before and I didn’t want to live under that cloud. I decided to just take everything off, and had a double mastectomy.”

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Anthony Weiner announced he was running for mayor on Wednesday. And a poll has him coming in second, after City Council Speaker Christine Quinn. Of course, haters gonna hate and when Andrew Cuomo was asked how he would respond if Weiner won the mayor’s race, he said: “Shame on us.” In fact, the real shame is that Weiner resigned from congress, after Democrats, in typical fashion, threw him under the bus and called for him to step down. The real shame is when right wing politicians condemn and attempt to control the sex lives of others, especially when they engage in sexual behavior they would publicly scorn. This should be the real scandal. But sadly, it never is.

Don’t get me wrong. What Weiner did — sexting with women other than his wife and accidentally tweeting a sexual message he meant to DM — was stupid. Just as what Bill Clinton in The Oval Office was stupid. And Weiner’s denying sexting with women was dishonest. Just as Clinton’s denial of having “sexual relations with that woman” was dishonest.

But what Anthony Weiner did not warrant a resignation. Just as what Bill Clinton did didn’t warrant impeachment. What warrants impeachment is something like the Iran-Contras affair, in which the Reagan Administration sold weapons to Iran, violating an arms embargo, to fund the right wing murderous Contras in Nicaragua, violating a congressional amendment which specifically prohibited funding this counter-insurgency group. What is impeachable is lying about Weapons of Mass Destruction in Iraq to trick people into supporting an unjust war. The Contras terrorized countless civilians and killed at least 30,000. The War in Iraq claimed the lives of as many as 650,000 Iraqis and nearly 5,000 Americans. But neither Reagan nor Bush ever faced the threat of impeachment. (Though, to his credit, Weiner did vote yes on a bill to impeach Bush over lying about WMDs.)

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The right wing loves to pathologize homosexuality and portray LGBT people as sick. The great irony is that the right’s homophobic policies and depictions are what actually have negative effects on the psychological well-being of the LGBT community.

In an NPR interview Tuesday morning, Mark Hatzenbuehler, a psychologist at Columbia University who studies the health effects of social policies, explained that bans on same-sex marriage have a negative effect of LGBT people’s mental health, while legalization of same-sex marriage has a positive one. Hatzenbuehler reviewed date collected by the National Institutes of Health, which surveyed the mental health of 43,093 Americans before several same-sex marriage bans went into effect. The NIH followed up after the marriage bans and re-interviewed 34,653 of the original subjects.

Hatzenbuehler, along with his colleagues Katie McLaughlin, Katherine Keyes and Deborah Hasinfound that, “Lesbian, gay and bisexual individuals who lived in the states that banned same-sex marriage experienced a significant increase in psychiatric disorders… There was a 37% increase in mood disorders … a 42% increase in alcohol-use disorders, and — I think really strikingly — a 248% increase in generalized anxiety disorders.” […]

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As was noted in yesterday’s Daily Feminist Cheat Sheet, Women, Action, and the Media (WAM!) launched a great social media initiative on Tuesday, taking on gender-based hate on Facebook. Specifically, WAM and other great organizations are “calling on Facebook users to contact advertisers whose ads on Facebook appear next to content that targets women for violence, to ask these companies to withdraw from advertising on Facebook until you take the above actions to ban gender-based hate speech on your site.”  Several companies have responded to the#FBrape campaign and are considering pulling their ads. […]

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A 22-year-old woman in El Salvador, whose pseudonym is Beatriz, is currently in the hospital, waiting for an abortion that could save her life. Her doctors want to terminate her pregnancy. So, why haven’t they? Because they fear being prosecuted under El Salvador’s laws, which prohibit abortion in all cases with no exceptions for rape, incest, the health of the mother or the life of the mother. You can sign the Care2 petition asking El Salvador’s Supreme Court to guarantee that Beatriz and her doctors will not be prosecuted for undergoing and performing a life-saving procedure here. Sadly, El Salvador isn’t the only country to ban abortion in all cases with no exceptions whatsoever. Here are the five countries that do.

Chile

In 1967, Chile legalized abortion when it was necessary to save the mother’s life. In 1989 President Augusto Pinochet (Right Wing Dictator and egregious human rights offender) made abortion illegal under all circumstances. Pinochet is long gone, yet his draconian abortion laws remain in effect. In 2006, President Michelle Bachelet authorized government distribution of the morning-after pill to women 14 and older. Two years later, however, Chile’s Constitutional Tribunal ended this program.

El Salvador

In 1998, the government of El Salvador passed a new penal code banning all abortions without exception. An earlier law allowed abortions in cases of threats to the health or life of the woman, rape, incest or severe fetal abnormality. A 1999 constitutional amendment defined a human being from the moment of conception. An estimated 628 women have been imprisoned since the 1998 law was enacted for having abortions. Twenty-four of these women were indicted for “aggravated murder” after an abortion, or even after a miscarriage or stillbirth. If doctors find evidence of an abortion, they must report their patients to the police. Women seeking medical help after a botched abortion have been handcuffed to their hospital beds. For obvious reasons, it is unknown how many illegal abortions have been performed. But attempts to self-induce abortions are the second highest cause of maternal mortality in the country.

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On May 31, 2009, Dr. George Tiller, an abortion provider in Wichita, Kansas was at church, serving as an usher during the Sunday morning service. Anti-choice zealot Scott Roeder shot Tiller through the eye and killed him. Roeder, who publicly confessed to the crime, was convicted of murder. Now Roeder is accused of threatening Julie Burkhart, executive director of the non-profit group Trust Women,which reopened Dr. Tiller’s shuttered clinic in April of this year.

The charge is the result of a recorded phone conversation between Roeder and David Leach, an abortion opponent from Des Moines, Iowa, posted on YouTube last month that as of Wednesday had gotten 629 views. In it, Leach is heard saying that if someone shot Burkhart, like Roeder shot Tiller it would be “a blessing to the babies.” Roeder laughed, agreed and said, ”To walk in there and reopen a clinic, a murder mill where a man was stopped, it’s almost like putting a target on your back — saying, “Well, let’s see if you can shoot me.”

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